Partnering with Your Child's Counselor
Counseling support staff can help to ensure your child’s success in school and in the future.
Know what to ask for at a conference with your child’s counselor.
Social-Emotional Supports for Academic Success
- Sign up for a NYC Schools Account at your child's school for online access to your child's grades, attendance, and exam scores.
- Ask the counselor to set up an informal contract for your child with goals for school. The contract may include a daily check-in form for each of your child’s teachers to complete.
- Ask for a schedule of upcoming Parent Association meetings and parent-teacher conferences.
- Ask for a schedule for when report cards are distributed at your child’s school.
- Ask for a review of your child's report card, transcript/graduation requirements (high school only), and attendance record.
- Ask for support with your child's middle school and high school applications.
- Ask about setting up a weekly time to connect with your child's counselor to discuss feedback from teachers, or to review your child's attendance for the prior week.
- Ask the counselor about the possibility of adjusting your child's academic program in order to accommodate your family’s needs.
- Ask about receiving missed assignments from teachers, and help your child to complete them.
- Ask about tutoring at your child’s school.
Career and Post-Secondary Development
- Ask how college and career planning is facilitated across the grades at your child's school.
- Ask for your child to take a career interest inventory (i.e., http://www.mynextmove.org/ for middle schools and high schools)
- Ask how scholarship and other college opportunities are communicated to families.
- Ask about college visits, college fairs, as well as financial aid workshops.
- Ask the counselor about any questions you may have related to the military recruitment opt-out.
- Ask about community service opportunities for your child.
- Ask about teen employment opportunities including the City's Summer Youth Employment Program, available through the Department of Youth and Community Development.
- Ask how to obtain working papers.
Additional Parent and Family Support
If you or your family would like additional support from the NYC Department of Education, please contact:
Shoshana Lief, LMSW
Family Support Manager for Vulnerable Populations
NYC DOE Office of Safety and Youth Development
We help by providing:
- Short-term counseling services
- Referrals to local services
- Community resources